Attractive Chinese girls are everywhere you look… in China, in the US and in most overseas cities where there is an established Chinese population. Yet, the big question is: what makes a Chinese girl so attractive? If you ask a foreigner about attractive Chinese girls, he will certainly have a different opinion to a man from another Asian country. Such a man will have a different opinion from a local Chinese man who, in turn, may disagree with the views of a Chinese man living in Beijing if he comes from Shanghai!

Each major Chinese city prides itself on the beauty of its women and, if you are looking for sexy Chinese girls in Tianjin or Dalian as compared to Guangzhou or Chengdu then, whilst the basic “ingredients” may be the same, that extra “something” that helps define “attractive” will be open to different interpretations. So, let’s consider the different factors that need to be present to help define a little better what we mean by attractive Chinese girls.


Although attractive Chinese girls come from different backgrounds and in all shapes and sizes, they all seem to have several things in common: poise and femininity that reveals a real women; an indefinable, fragile beauty; an allure that girls from many other countries seem to lack; and last, but not least, that steely determination to succeed… Here are some key aspects to consider when thinking about attractive Chinese girls:

Figures: most beautiful Chinese girls have amazing figures—well proportioned, well toned, and womanly and, perhaps best of all, they seem to tend to keep them longer than many women from other countries! Such girls are usually svelte, small boned and relatively small in stature. Undoubtedly, her “vital statistics” will be impressive!

Features: similarly, beautiful Chinese girl usually have finely boned features such as high cheekbones, sensuous lips and thin, straight noses—all perfectly arranged. Fine, smooth skin, topped off by the crowning glory of long, jet black tresses, apparently floating in the breeze… Don’t forget her sparkling brown, almond shaped eyes, then add all of these facial features together and the “jigsaw” is complete; the beauty portrayed—and, often, what a stunning, pretty Chinese girl!

Grooming: usually well groomed and well dressed, any beautiful Chinese girl will have her skin, hair and finger nails well maintained. Of course, she’ll be dressed in the latest fashions and accessories but it’s not just that, as many beautiful Chinese girls seem to have that innate sense of style, that ability to look good in a wide variety of outfits. It’s inbuilt in a Chinese woman to want to look her best. The missing ingredient for any beautiful Chinese girl is intangible, almost indescribable—just like with any woman the world over who has “it”. That something special…, that mysterious final piece of the puzzle… but when an attractive Chinese girl has “it” you’ll know for sure. It might simply be the way she pouts; the way she crosses her legs… or the way she smiles with her eyes: whatever it is… it’s beautiful!


Finding and getting to know a sexy Chinese girl can be a challenge for any man, never mind a foreign man. For some men it’s bad enough trying to find a woman in their own city or country so it’s worthwhile to do some research and make a careful, workable plan if you are intent on finding a Chinese girl to be your partner. However, don’t get too hung up on having a rigid plan as, sometimes, the best laid plans don’t work and, quite unexpectedly, you meet an available, attractive, beautiful Chinese girl in the lift or in the park. In any event, always remember that, just because a Chinese girl is beautiful, she will, probably, still be intelligent and have aspiration and plans of her own. Some ways to meet pretty Chinese girls include:

Company gatherings or business events: business events or conferences are ideal to get to know beautiful Chinese girls in your profession or related professions, many of whom have worked hard on their career at the expense of finding a partner—being sexy can also involve being very career minded!

Educational courses: doing a Chinese language or other educational course opens ups possibilities of meeting pretty Chinese girls, both from the Mainland but also overseas born Chinese girls who have returned to China and who need to brush up on their mother tongue.

Dating sites: you’ll be surprised at how many beautiful Chinese girls use reputable dating sites mainly because she is looking for a mate—and, sometimes, a foreign man can be more understanding and compassionate—plus less intimated by her being sexy and being admired by other men.

College girl students thinking and walking

Bars and clubs: it may surprise you to know that many sexy Chinese girls are not necessarily “party animals”; still, it cannot be denied that bars and clubs are possible meeting places where the main objective of both males and females is to have a good time, and see who from the opposite sex is around and about…, and available.


So, you’ve met a beautiful Chinese girl, and now you need to make her attracted to you. What are some of the things to do to win her over? Maybe show her you have:

Good heart: this relates to the way you show your care and concern for your beautiful Chinese girl and for her close friends and family. It’s common in China for girls to place almost as much weight on their man having a good heart as on his looks and appearance.

Be chivalrous: pretty Chinese girls can be real romantics at heart and even fairly simple chivalrous displays can only enhance their desires to be with you. Often foreign men are much more chivalrous: letting their women go first into a room, opening doors, standing on the outside of a footpath when traffic goes by—and this can be a big advantage in the mind of your sexy Chinese girl.

Respect: treat your beautiful Chinese girl as your equal; show that you recognise her prowess in doing a demanding job; involve her in key decisions about money, key purchases or other matters which you feel need the input of both of you. This sense of being wanted, of being your partner is a subtle way of turning your sexy Chinese girl on and making her be that much more affectionate at the right times.

Good appearance: make your pretty Chinese girl proud to be alongside you at functions, when out shopping or generally when you are together; her pride in you will resonate into the warmth of her affection. Being handsome or good looking, of course, also counts but always being neat and tidy and dressing well works too!


With your beautiful Chinese girl on the way to being your partner for life, how do you best behave?

Pay close attention to her interests and background: as an Asian woman, pretty Chinese girls will still be far more culture-centric than western women and she will be flattered in your interest in her life and background. Show genuine interest in her interests, whether these be her family, her studies and, ideally, in her culture and heritage.

Gain her confidence: despite being a pretty Chinese girl your new girlfriend will probably have led a relatively sheltered life and your outward signs of only wanting her for her physical appearance are going to lead you nowhere. When you finally get to have some quality conversation time with this woman, choose your words carefully; repress your desires to touch her, hold her hand, or to be overly physical too early. Give her time to get used to you.

Assimilate with her group: get to know who your sexy Chinese girl spends time with and cultivate their friendship and companionship. Let them know you, too, are a “nice person”, possessing some of the qualities that you have identified in the sexy girl attracting your attention. Although, naturally, the first attraction to your sexy Chinese girl is how she looks, don’t be deceived by appearances—you’ll be surprised at just how many such girls truly don’t know they are beautiful… really!

By Zhang Li
My New Chinese Wife


  1. Hi good morning from Cameroon u are very welcome and nice girls and ladies but u do not reply letters back why life is so short

  2. Hi this is tough for an American like me attracted to them but hard to find number one issue number two issue Iam I older now and know they are nice sweet intelligent females and physically Iam attracted that way to them also. What to do?


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